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Posts: 9511 09/15/05 16:14:46 BookTalk Owner |
Thanks! I'm getting ready to go out to dinner with my girlfriend to celebrate.
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tarav |
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Posts: 1052 09/15/05 16:16:33 Moderator |
Enjoy! Happy Birthday!
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 09/15/05 16:17:09 BookTalk Owner |
Thank you!
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 10/18/05 11:05:41 BookTalk Owner |
Hurricane Wilma seen strengthening, heads for Florida
After seeing the destruction from the past several hurricanes I am already thinking about when and where we should go if this storm strengthens and heads this way. I don't want us to get caught on the roads heading out of Florida in long lines of traffic, but this state is really tall. There are only a few ways out. |
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tarav |
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Posts: 1052 10/18/05 17:11:23 Moderator |
My offer stands, Chris. You and your girlfriend are welcome to come here. Just let me know...
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 10/18/05 18:17:37 BookTalk Owner |
What about my father, brother, sister-in-law, two neices, two gerbils and cat?
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misterpessimistic |
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Posts: 4113 10/18/05 19:30:47 Indisputable BookTalk Master |
Uhm...I can use....I mean I can house the gerbils!
Mr. P. The one thing of which I am positive is that there is much of which to be negative - Mr. P.
The pain in hell has two sides. The kind you can touch with your hand; the kind you can feel in your heart...Scorsese's "Mean Streets" I came to kick ass and chew Bubble Gum...and I am all out of Bubble Gum - They Live, Roddy Piper |
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 66 10/19/05 10:22:58 Intern |
Now the most powerful storm on record!
Chris, my mom lives in WPB, and has reported that the news there says the projected path puts it just north or Naples, and heading across the state to West Palm. So whatever you do, don't go east! There is an idea of a Patrick Bateman; some kind of abstraction. But there is no real me: only an entity, something illusory. And though I can hide my cold gaze, and you can shake my hand and feel flesh gripping yours and maybe you can even sense our lifestyles are probably comparable... I simply am not there.
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 10/19/05 10:43:40 BookTalk Owner |
Hurricanes rarely hit right where they are projected to hit. The truth is the professionals don't know where this one will land.
Here is a hurricane path projection map, which shows it as potentially hitting my city directly. If it does, to be honest, my city will be completely destroyed. Our townhome is of frame construction. The only thing left will be the foundation. Then again, this hurricane could slow down considerably. But even 130mph winds require evacuation. Our home could not withstand winds over 120mph for long. Today I'll be going to the store and buying about 8 gallons of water in case this is just a low-grade hurricane. But if it is predicted to nail us we're leaving Florida. Thanks for your offer Tara. Chris |
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Posts: 416 10/19/05 12:13:50 Witty&Wise |
Do please take care. I have been thinking of you there in Sunny, hurricane-prone Florida.
Marti in Mexico |
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 10/29/05 11:14:53 BookTalk Owner |
There just doesn't seem to be enough hours in the day. If I could spend more time on BookTalk I'd be very happy, but life pulls me away far too frequently.
I've just finished breakfast and coffee and am about to go do an Open House this afternoon. Open Houses are a great way to meet potential clients, so I don't have much of choice. Either I do one or I waste the opportunity and have to wait till next weekend. Yesterday I spent the day visiting my Uncle and Aunt and cousin at their Florida home. The significance of the visit was that my Uncle and father were reuniting after about 10 years of not speaking with each other. Seeing them hug was so nice. We talked about everything imaginable and had a great time. My Uncle played a CD for us of him and his friends in jam sessions. Holy shit they're good. My Uncle played the drums where he was younger - he looks just like Eric Clapton. From what my father tells me my Uncle was incredibly talented and played in a rock band for years. But until yesterday I never really knew how skilled he was. They did songs by The Doors, Neil Young, and more. And I swear their music is just as good as the original - when they aren't laughing and cracking jokes in the background. I've got a passion for drumming too, so hearing my 56-year-old Uncle playing so beautifully was an inspiration. I'm thinking about how I really need to buy an electronic set so I can practice in our townhome without disturbing the neighbors. I suppose I should get ready for my Open House. Tonight I'm going to a Halloween party. I hate to sound like such an introvert, because I'm really not that shy, but this is torture. I'm not looking forward to going to this party at all. I know about 4 of the 30 people that will be there, and my girlfriend is the only one I have any real relationship with. Personally, I'd rather remove my own spleen with a butter knife than go to things like this. |
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 12/12/05 22:25:10 BookTalk Owner |
That last post was made over a month ago. I'm not doing very well with journaling here.
Flash forward to today... For some very specific reasons this is a hard time of year for me. I could dance around the subject and be vague, but that would be a waste of time. In a nutshell, my mother died about this time of year when I was 6 years old. Christmas lights, cookies, songs and decorations yank me back into the mind of a little kid. Even the temperature drop is hard for me. Maybe that is why I could never again live where there is snow. I try so hard, but the memories of her moaning in pain on the couch slowly dying for months seem to never want to go away. I remember when the Catholic Preist told me God needed my mother in heaven now. Well, fuck you then God. I needed her more than you could ever have needed her. My father almost died of a broken heart when she died. He is still messed up today, three decades later. Since then I've had plenty of Christmas events to replace the nightmarish memories, but they never seem to completely erase the visions. Maybe because the next seven years were far far worse. Someday I'll be able to talk more about this, but for now I've said enough. |
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Posts: 9511 12/13/05 23:51:27 BookTalk Owner |
Days like today make it very clear why salespeople get paid so much more than salaried positions. The stress is incredible.
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 12/16/05 11:44:58 BookTalk Owner |
December has been a very hectic month where I've had little free time for working on BookTalk, working out, or spending quality time with friends and family. I'm taking today off so I can get caught up on a few things.
Erik Wielenberg, author of "Value & Virtue in a Godless Universe" was really friendly and pleasant on the phone this morning. I'm pleased that he readily accepted my invitation to a live chat session in March. My schedule has been so busy that I haven't focused on the live author chats. Hopefully I'll get 3 or 4 on the calendar within a few days so the community gets fired up again. My girlfriend's cat is sleeping soundly next to me in his fluffy cat bed. I really love him and it makes me feel good that he opts to spend his days next to me whenever I'm working from home. But I feel a bit sad that he now spends a little less time with my girlfriend. He is getting his loving from two sources now, so when she gets home at night he doesn't go crazy as much anymore. And he doesn't sleep on her hair each night the way he did before me. This has hurt her feelings a bit and I'm not sure what to do. Maybe I lock him out of my office during the day so that he misses her more and wants to spend more time with her when she gets home. She has had her cat since he was a little kitten so she is his mommy. When we sleep he climbs up into bed with us and nestles into her hair and purrs and purrs. He never sleeps in my hair. He climbs over my head to get to his mommy. But he doesn't come to her the moment she gets into bed anymore and this is hurting her feelings. I'm not sure what to do. Cats do whatever they want so there is no calling out to him to get him to come to the bedroom at night. She loves him so much and doesn't want me to lock him out of my office, but I'm tempted. |
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MadArchitect |
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Posts: 3169 12/16/05 12:26:30 Indisputable BookTalk Master |
And he doesn't sleep on her hair each night the way he did before me. This has hurt her feelings a bit and I'm not sure what to do.
You might try slipping some fish oil in her shampoo when she isn't looking, then act all surprised when the cat starts sleeping on her hair again. Of course, this may make for some really big hair balls. On the other hand, if this is a recent change, it may be reflective of the change in the weather. Hair isn't a very good conductor of heat, and if the temperature has dropped a bit, the cat may be finding that your girlfriend's hair is just a little too chilly to make for a comfortable bed. |
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 12/16/05 12:34:29 BookTalk Owner |
No, this has been happening for months and months so temp can't explain it. I think the problem is that he is no longer alone all day long. Before me he would be by himself all day with no attention or love. So naturally he would run to her when she got home in the evening and spend plenty of time showing her attention. Now that I'm here he is getting attention all day long.
He just jumped up on my desk, purred, and plopped down on my Franklin Covey planner. See what I mean? He is the most affectionate cat I have ever seen. If I lock him out of the office he crys outside the door and scratches at the carpet at the bottom of the door. He has actually done a little damage to the carpet. So what do I do? I love the cat, but I love my girlfriend much more. I really don't feel good about stealing her cats affection. |
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MadArchitect |
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Posts: 3169 12/16/05 18:22:30 Indisputable BookTalk Master |
Maybe try the reverse tactic. Make yourself as unappealing to the cat as possible. Douse your hands with vinegar when your girlfriend isn't around. Wear a dog mask when she's out. Sing Dean Martin songs -- cats hate Dean Martin.
Or find a way to work outside your apartment for a few hours before your girlfriend gets home. That way the cat is at least a little attention starved by the time she gets home. Maybe make sure that your girlfriend is the only person who feeds the cat, while you're the one that gives it flea medication. |
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Chris OConnor |
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Posts: 9511 12/16/05 19:34:52 BookTalk Owner |
ahhh hahaha
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pctacitus |
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Posts: 650 12/16/05 22:16:42 Enlightened One |
One of the simplest methods of insuring that the cat isn't overdosed on attention is to simply close the door on it. Wild Thing used to hate it, but occasionally, you need a few hours to yourself (in spite of her demands for 8 hours of atention a day). Perhaps what you should do is allow the cat in the office in the morning, but not the afternoon. This way you can spend time with it, but it will be happy to see mommy in the evening.
PS Wild Thing used to go see people on command. My mom says she was the only cat she has ever seen do that. The words "Go see ..." often resulted in a warbling cat plopping down next to the named party. PPS Be forewarned, cats wonder what goes on behind closed doors. "the great events in life come from the books, rather than the people, one comes across." - Robert D. Kaplan, Mediterranean Winter: the Pleasures of History and Landscape in Tunisia, Sicily, Dalmatia, and Greece
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- The March: A Novel - by E.L. Doctorow
- The Ethical Brain - by Michael Gazzaniga
- Freethinkers: A History of American Secularism - by Susan Jacoby
- Collapse: How Societies Choose to Fail or Succeed - by Jared Diamond
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- Atheism: A Reader - edited by S. T. Joshi
- Global Brain: The Evolution of Mass Mind from the Big Bang to the 21st Century - by Howard Bloom
- The Lucifer Principle: A Scientific Expedition into the Forces of History - by Howard Bloom
- Guns, Germs and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies - by Jared Diamond
- Demon-Haunted World: Science As a Candle in the Dark - by Carl Sagan
- Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee: An Indian History of the American West - by Dee Alexander Brown
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